Sex positive

Last week, Close Encounters suggested a trip to the National Film Theatre to see a documentary called Sex Positive, which was showing as part of the London film festival. I hadn't seen Close Encounters since before my recent holiday, so being keen to catch up with him, I readily accepted the invitation.

The film was about a guy called Richard Berkowitz who was living in New York in the early 1980's when the Aids epidemic began. Richard was perhaps the first guy to advocate what we now call safe sex, however at the start of the epidemic it wasn't a message that most gay guys wanted to hear. According to the film, some guys felt that the freedom to have sex with other guys had been a difficult battle to win. Consequently they felt that Richard Berkowitz must have a very negative attitude towards gay sex, because he was saying that guys needed to change their sex lives if they wanted to avoid infection.

It turns out that Richard Berkowitz has quite an interesting background, because as well as being a writer he was also an S&M hustler. It seems that he was quite successful as a hustler, and had a big clientele. When a session was starting with a client, if there was something a guy told him not to do (e.g. "I don't want to get fucked") then that was the one thing that he made sure he ended up doing! On top of that he also went through a phase where he was addicted to crack cocaine. But although Richard Berkowitz is an interesting guy, the main reason that the film was made was to try and set the record straight and give Richard Berkowitz credit for delivering what was an unpopular message in the early 1980's, namely that gay guys needed to start having safe sex.

Thinking back about the film now however, one thing occurs to me. I could be wrong, but I think that Richard Berkowitz has got quite an annoying personality. He reminds me a lot of a guy that I knew when I was at university, and if this guy was wrong about something he'd never admit it, and if he was right about something he'd never let you forget it. So if Richard Berkowitz is indeed like that guy that I knew, perhaps that goes some way to explaining why people didn't want to give him the credit that he deserves!

What age did you first let someone else wank you, or you wank them?

Firstly, what age did you first let someone else masturbate you (and I mean of your own free will of course)?

Secondly, what age did you first masturbate someone else?

In each case was it another male, or a girl, and how did you feel afterwards? Did you do it regularly? Was it only done to you the first time, or did you return the favour?

Which one will I try first?

Kim

I've had a few requests for some photos of Kim. I don't feel I can post facials of her on here without her consent so here are two photos I took last year of her which show you what she looks like without showing her face:

I still have a banking job, for now ...

While I was on holiday, the financial markets have been quite 'unsettled'. The fact that the UK's banking system has now been partially nationalised seems incredible . Lots of job losses are predicted in the banking sector, on top of the job losses which have already occurred. However, for now at least, I still have my job.

A couple of days ago while walking in the street, I bump into an ex-colleague who works for one of the newly partially nationalised British banks, so I ask him how things are going:

"It was scary GB," he says, "the day our share price plummeted the dealing room went completely quiet. Everyone was scared. The clients stopped calling, apart for one or two who phoned up wanting to cancel old deals."

"So I guess you were all expecting to survive without becoming government employees!"

"Well yes," he replies, "things must have been a lot worse than we were led to believe. We've got lots of good businesses, but we've been brought down by a few bad ones and irresponsible management. Now we're all tarred by the same brush :-(. There's a lot of resentment. When it was announced that the chairman and chief executive were quitting, a huge cheer went up in the dealing room!"

But an old university friend who I met the following day, and who works for an asset management firm, was more up upbeat.

"These banking stocks are so cheap now," he tells me, "so I bought some! It'll all recover eventually :-). And if you ask me, I think the government is playing a mug's game by buying those bank preference shares. Preference shares give you all the risk but no control ..."

Hopefully this partial nationalisation of the banking system coupled with government guarantees for bank debt will be the low point of this crisis. It's a bold plan which in my opinion tackles the problem in exactly the right way. But if things go wrong now, with governments having already made their move to shore up the banking system, it's not clear that there'll be anyone left to prevent a very deep global recession.

The Visit

You are lying face-down on a fairly firm mattress - the bed is in a neat and sparely furnished room, but tidy and clean as well - in a hotel or motel perhaps. You are naked, and I'm lightly astride your legs. You raise your bottom off the mattress impatiently, and I can clearly see that you have recently and very carefully, shaved your ass. I can sense your frustration, as your bottom is lifting further - the hole has been oiled in advance.

Well aware that you are about to experience extreme male sexual pleasure, you move your hips so that your cock, (originally floppy but now quite firm - the tip almost reaching your navel) and balls rub on the sheets. You are now squirming in anticipation.

Cruelly, I delay the satisfaction of your desires. Lifting your bottom, I lightly run the tip of my greased finger around your tight anus - it pulsates in response, and I press my sheathed swollen knob into your hole.

Gasping, you raise your bum so much that you're on all fours - my cock automatically plunges completely between your bottom, my balls and penis shaft rotating on your shaved and rudely opened anus.

The feeling is so good that you feel light-headed with pleasure, and you fall flat onto the mattress, rubbing and writhing your cock on the sheets. Your bottom feels, and is, completely full of cock, being pushed in and out, slowly but gently. You have discovered the secret that the bottom and cock can unite to provide near heavenly horny sensations. The ring of your hole is now around the base of my extremely stiff shaft.

As you feel the end is near - you gasp, and involuntarily, cum spurts from your cock, in quick pulses, onto the sheets. I withdraw - the condom dangles with the weight of the captured spunk, my cock collapsing - its work completed. Too tired to get up, you hear me getting dressed and leaving the room, without a word.

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Email from a young guy with a concern about HIV

When I woke up this morning, I lay in bed for a few minutes cuddling up to boyfriend P, but wondering what I should post on my blog today. So later when I found an email in my inbox from a reader wanting some advice, it seemed like an ideal choice. The email was as follows:

Dear GB,

I can’t quite remember how I stumbled upon your blog, however that is irrelevant, as it has been revolutionary for me. As a 19 year old closeted student I hadn't indulged in any form of intimate contact with men till a few months ago as I wasn’t 100% sure. It was your site that persuaded me to use Gaydar, and it has been so emancipating. Thank you.

After finding several people my age, amongst the waves of old men offering to bottom, I decided to meet with one guy. One thing led to another and, well, I ended up staying at his and we had a fun time. We have since met up several times and engaged in all but full blown sex. However I am fearful he is HIV positive. The reasons are:

• I have suggested anal sex several times, and he refuses to bottom as "he likes being in control" – ok that’s fair enough;
• I am happy to try bottoming and he always seems so nervous about doing so, and uses the excuse he is too tired;
• He's very slim;
• I nosed around in his medical cabinet nothing there, but he went to his studio to get medication; and was very coy about it;
• He’s asthmatic.

Since writing the above I feel somewhat pathetic coming to the conclusion I have, but I still have this underlying fear. So should I ask him, if so how? Would you still engage in oral sex if he was positive (very personal don’t worry about answering)?

Many thanks,

Doing anything in life carries some level of risk, from walking down the stairs in the morning, to participation in dangerous sports. Having sex with another guy carries a risk which lies somewhere in between those two extremes, because it's possible to pick up quite a variety of infections and diseases including HIV. These days HIV seems to be a manageable condition, however just because it isn't the assured death sentence that it was twenty five years ago doesn't mean it should be ignored. On the contrary, it's still incurable so it's important to avoid being infected if possible. For this reason, as I said a few months ago, when meeting guys for the first time I always ask about their HIV status.

Reading the reader's email, none of the reasons that he gives indicate that the guy is HIV positive. I reckon the only real suspicion arises from the fact that the guy is on medication for something that he hasn't disclosed, but of course he could be on medication for absolutely anything including his asthma if he gets it badly.

As the reader suggests, since they've now met up several times, if they're going to continue seeing each other I think it's reasonable to ask about HIV status. But the reader shouldn't make a big issue about it. Perhaps asking along the lines "By the way, I know you're taking medication for something, so I've been wondering about your HIV status … ?" would work without seeming unnecessarily intrusive.

Even if the guy thinks that he's HIV negative though, there's a possibility that he's actually HIV positive and doesn't know it. Apparently after being infected it can take up to three months for an HIV test to produce a positive result. So whatever the guy's apparent status, if the two of them start having full anal sex the reader should make sure that they always use condoms.

Regarding oral sex, although HIV transmission in that situation is much less likely than with anal sex, it's still possible especially if the guy doing the sucking has bad oral hygiene or bleeding gums. So I wouldn't advise sucking a guy who's definitely HIV positive, because I think the pre-cum of an infected guy does contain some HIV.

Do any other readers have any thoughts on this subject?

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A night with Lisa

A few weeks ago a new girl, Lisa, started working in the office next to mine. We clicked as soon as she started work and we spent a few lunchtimes chatting over sandwiches. Last Tuesday she asked me for a lift home and when we got there she asked if I wanted to come in for a while. As Kim was away for the night I told her I would. As soon as we got in she went to get herself changed whilst I got a beer from her fridge. She re-appeared wearing sweats and a flimsy t-shirt and for some reason my cock lurched at the site of her. She clearly had no bra and yet her boobs seemed as perfect with one on. I smiled and like a tiger on its prey she was on me in a flash. She pinned me against the wall. My cock was aching to be released, but my hands made my way into her sweats to feel she was not wearing any panties. Her shaved cunt was wet and slippery already. I pulled her pants down and let them drop to the floor.

She tugged at my belt and loosed my chinos letting them fall as well. I stood there with my thong tented out and her shirt half over her head. I kicked my chinos off as she pulled away and made her way to her settee. I was naked in no time and I got on my knees in front of her and buried my face in her shaved pussy. I lapped at her cunt like I was a thirsty dog over a bowl of cold water. She squealed with glee as I licked her gushing cunt. She entangled my hair with her fingers and tried to pull me into her, as if my head was going to fit inside of her.

She cried out release of each orgasm my mouth brought to her. She pushed me back on the floor and plunged her pussy on my hard and waiting cock. She bounced on my dick for just a few moments when I tossed a huge load of sperm in her. I came fast, but my cock never went soft as she kept bounding up and down on it.

She was panting hard as I rolled her over on the floor keeping my still hard cock buried in her shaved pussy. I kept pile driving her for what seemed like an eternity. She came over and over again. I never let up. I may have been quick on the draw the first time, but I tended to last forever on the second.

She asked me to go to the bed as she realised her windows were open and we were in plain site of the neighbouring homes. We got up and went into her bedroom and there I shoved her down on her knees and entered her from behind. I fucked her doggy style for several more minutes till I came again coating her cunt with my hot spunk.

She fell forward her with ass exposed to me with my sperm leaking from her pussy. She breathed heavily into her pillow. I sat back on my knees with my cock gleaming with her juices still clinging to it. It slowly shrank back down to size. Her legs were shaved, tan and quite shapely. My mind wandered about fucking her again and she snapped me back to reality when I felt her mouth lick my cock clean and she pushed me on to my back and lifted my legs and rimmed my arse hole.

She slimed her finger in me and I moaned a loud moan and asked for a second finger. She did not disappoint and let a second enter me. I was soon hard and she had her mouth all over it as she finger fucked my ass. She jacked my cock and plunged her finger into me, and I was moaning so loud that she was asking me to keep quiet. My cock exploded with the force from the combination of her hand, mouth and fingers.

We lay there in silence covered in cum and pussy juice. She soon drifted off to sleep and I crept out of her bed and in to the early evening dark into her shower. I cleaned myself of our sticky juices in the light of her shower. I towelled off and quietly gathered my clothes and headed out the door, but not before leaving her a note. Letting her know I would love to see her again and suggested dinner that next night.

I got out to my car and drove home to a waiting message from Kim.

What's under your gym shorts?

Guys, what do you wear under your gym shorts at the gym? Jocks, thongs, briefs? Why?
If your shorts have a liner, does that make a difference?

Music

I've had a few comments about the music that's playing in the background. I think this must be from my Slide Shows. Anyway I've fiddled with the codes and hope this has sorted it. BTW I didn't choose the tracks so they're not my taste.
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Awesome body, awesome cock, awesome ass!!

Speedos or shorts.....which do you prefer?

I always prefer speedos whether I'm swimming, chilling by the pool or on the beach.

This guy is just so hot!

I think that this guy, Shannon, is really hot. He could well be my ideal guy! He writes a blog as well - there are more pics of him on there so definitely check it out here.

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