A reader's first gay experience

For a couple of years now, I've been in occasional contact with an Asian reader of mine, mostly by email but including a few MSN conversations too. He's a guy who identifies as being gay, but until recently had never had a physical experience with another guy. Almost since we started communicating with each other I'd been trying to persuade him to find a nice guy for a bit of fun, so that he could find out whether he enjoys gay sex or not. Since he lives in a big American city with a large gay population, I reasoned that there must be at least one gay guy who he'd find attractive enough for a first experience!

Last week, he finally sent me an email to tell me that he'd had his first gay experience, in which he also described exactly what happened. I thought that his story might be useful to other guys who're in a similar position, such as the guy who was looking for light fun recently, so I managed to get my Asian reader's permission to post his email. It goes into more explicit detail that I usually post here so be warned. However if anyone does want to read the story of his first gay experience Click here.

Hi GB,

I had my first experience today with a guy. I found him through gay.com, as you suggested ;-). It started last week. We chatted a bit and he offered to give me a first experience. He is early 40's, very masculine, and pretty good lookin. I like older guys for sure. He gave me his phone number during the chat. I was surprised. I didn't think I would respond actually, but curiosity got the better of me. I sms-ed him a 'hi', and he asked if I just sent him an sms. LoL. I said yes. Anyway, we then decided to meet him sometime today.

I was extremely...extremely...extremely nervous! I went back and forth his unit door, still deciding if I should go ahead to knock his door. I did. He opened the door half naked! Towel wrapped around his lower body. Apparently he was halfway through taking shower. He said I can talk to him while he was showering. He didn't mention that I actually got to watch him taking shower as well. I have seen naked guys in gym shower before, LoL, but I never ever stared at one full frontal like this before. Kinda weird but nice at the same time. One thing attracted my attention, his penis is long, much longer than mine! I am Asian, and from general knowledge I think Asian guys do have smaller penis than a Caucasians. But wow it kinda blew my head away seeing a porn-size penis like that, ha ha ha but at the same time I was feeling inferior, and not sure if he would like mine. So I told him directly that his is big. Ha ha ha I didn’t know what I was thinking making comment like that, but I suppose kinda implying him that mine is actually smaller than his. He was cool with it, but then said he saw bigger! My god!

He was buck-naked out of the shower and we had a little chat. He sat me down on his bed, and asked me what I’d like for sex, and I said I don't know at this stage. He then asked me if I'd like to see him in jockstrap. I said yes. It turned out to be very sexy seeing him in it. He asked me if I'd like to touch his cock, and I did. I gave it a rub and it was becoming real hard. He then laid on his stomach on the bed and asked me to rub oil all over his back, ass, and eventually I rub his cock as well. GB, his cock is big, I really like touching it.

His hand rubbed my crotch, and I offered to take off my clothes. At this point, it looked like he like what he saw, so I feel quite comfortable with it. He rubbed me with some oil as well, and then unrepentantly he gave me a blow job. Wow, I was a bit surprised, because on the chat a few days ago, I'd just like to have a jerk off session. But it was nice seeing someone suck, ha ha ha, and strange and nervous and the same time.

He gave me rimming as well. Man, rimming is very very good I thought. I like it very much. But after that he asked me how about kissing? LoL, and I said 'you just rim my ass though'. Thinking about it, I should actually say something a bit better than that. He was a bit surprised but said fair enough. He went back to toilet to mouthwash and kissed me. I don’t know much about kissing, but I didn’t enjoy it that much. His tongue stuck out all the time, and I was just sucking on his tongue, which was kinda weird. Is that normal way of gay's kissing? And I could taste his mouthwash, which was not good at all.

He asked me if I'd like to do the same. I hesitated at first because I am wearing braces at the moment, and worried if my gum is bleeding etc. I told him that and I could see that he was a little irritated. Maybe because of my previous rejection of kissing him after rimming me as well. :-) Anyway, I like his cock a lot, and I couldn’t help myself. I sucked him, just a little, at the head then lick his shaft and a bit of balls.

The next part is what I enjoyed the most, I laid on my back on the bed, and he was on top of me, kissing me, and pushing his hard cock and rubbed it between my thighs. I love the feeling that his body pressed against mine and we were kissing as well. I didn’t quite enjoy the kissing still.

He asked me if it’s the time to put on the condom. Sensing that it meant anal sex, I said no, no anal please. Luckily he understood, if he pressed on, I think I probably would gave in. LoL, which then I would walked home in a funny way.

In the end he asked me to kind of sit on top of his chest, pushing my cock against his mouth. I like seeing him sucking on my cock, and GB in the end I actually cum in his mouth a :-P Not sure if that is safe? I did warn him that I am going to cum, but he said to go ahead, so I did.

Overall I enjoyed it, probably more if I wasn't really nervous. I was disappointed that afterwards he said he got to get going soon and asked me if I'd like to take a shower. I thought we were going to snuggle a bit afterwards :-(

Getting oral was not what I have expected. I thought it would be much better, but it sort of does not gave me too much pleasure at all, kinda there but not a lot kind of feeling. I don't know what to expect, and probably that’s what it feels like? Or perhaps I have already jerked the day before... LoL, so my cock wasn't that sensitive anymore.

So GB, I got my first experience now! After waiting all these years, my curiosity got the better of me. I am still bit worried, tried to do whatever safe. I am not sure if oral, especially me sucking him was that safe given I have braces.

It was good, but wasn't mind blowing :-). It would probably better sex if I have a relationship with the guy first. It was really a meet-sex-go type of activity. Perhaps that’s a norm in gay world. I am probably a sensitive-type of guy that wants more of out sex....

PS. Sorry for long email.. ;-)